Thursday, April 29, 2010

come out at night.

Good morning ladies and gents,

I hope you all had a great sleep :) I've still been waking up sort of early but at least I'm sleeping longer than I did when I was on res. 

I'm currently in the process of determining where I am going to hold a little step class for myself. I need to get some cardio into my work outs so I've decided to do some sort of cardio when I wake up and then work on strength before I go to sleep. I really want to be at 135 pounds before the summer is through. I do have four months to lose the weight, but I'd like to get there sooner than later and then decide whether or not I should be losing more or toning!

Today should be a good and busy day. Nick is coming over around 11:30am/12:00pm, I'm going to my grandmother's for dinner with my family, then I'm going out for a drink and some dancing with Tash. 

There's this lounge/night club near my house called "Nava" that we are going to. I've never been there before but we're going to try it out tonight. If that doesn't work out, there is a Moxies right across the street where we can go to talk and maybe have some dessert. Then, she's sleeping over. We don't want any DUIs! But, other than that, I'd rather her sleep over so I can spend more time with the lady. :)

I feel bad for two reasons, though. My mom has this thing where she can't sleep unless she knows that I'm in my bed sleeping. So, every time I go out she sits and waits up for me. It's not because she doesn't trust me or doesn't want me to go out, it's because she legit cannot sleep unless I'm home from a night out. Normally, I'd be okay with it if she would be off the next day. However, she has to wake up at 6:30am tomorrow morning. I told her we'd try to be home for midnight and her face dropped.

Another thing I feel bad about is that I'm making Tash come home with me earlier.

I know she's okay with it, obviously, but I just feel bad because tonight was supposed to be our ladies' night out on this lame old town. 

I guess I just wish my mom would go to sleep whenever she normally goes to sleep because this way I wouldn't have to feel bad and feel like I'm disrespecting her. I respect my parents so much and if ever they have to wake up early the next morning, I try my best to schedule my days/nights around that to prevent them from having a poor night's sleep.

Only time will tell whether or not this will change.

I know one thing's for sure, though. My dad's definitely going to say "Don't be home late, your mother has to wake up early." Not like he ever waits up for me, though...He can just crash even if my house was empty.

Oh Italian families. We have a love-hate relationship.


Georgia @ simplydirtyprettythings said...

errrr my dad wont sleep unless im in. its depressing :/

Anonymous said...

ur italian.. thts so kul.


~Abby~ said...

Aw I wish your mom wouldn't do that; but I hope you have fun tonight! :)

A@ Please Don't Eat Me! said...

bahhhhhh come to my house, i used to get in well after 2 or 3 in the morning. and my parents would be sleeping still.. lol wouldnt even notice!
your mom sounds cute about it though.. i think i would be doing the same thing..

T E H R E N A N A I I S said...

my mom is the exact same way! and last year i found out my grandma is the same way as well!

my parents had asked my grandma to come over and stay with us when they went on a trip [i was 23 and my brother was 21 but apparently we still needed to be watched] and my mom told her before hand that my brother goes out every night and sometimes doesnt get in till 4 or 5 so dont worry and just sleep whenever. she still stayed up till 4 or 5 until he got home.. finally had to tell my brother to be home earlier because of it.

think its natural for parents to do that. :p